Sermons of Rebuke V: Nitzavim

by Rivka Schwartz

Announcements
The Chazin for Rosh Hashana will be doing the services very fast. We will be out of shul by 3pm.
 
No need to wait till the High Holidays to donate money to the shul in honor of your loved ones. You can give money right now. You can always give us money. The office of the shul is always happy to help take your money.
 
We are raising money for honey for the poor. The rest is on them. Though, our congregants have graciously volunteered to make sure poor people have the condiment.
 
We ask people to calm down with the Shofar blowing. We understand it’s exciting to see somebody blowing a horn for more than five seconds, but we do ask people also think about Davening this Rosh Hashana. We ask that you don't break into discussion because we did a Mitzvah.
 
Contemporary Halacha Classes: Why the Chazin Thinks People Want to Be in Shul Longer on Rosh Hashana- Discussion in People Who Think Other People Want to Hear Them. Why Rabbis Are Amazing and People Want to Hear Them. Why You Should Give More Money to the Shul and Why the Rabbi Deserves a Raise. How Donating Honey Helped Nobody in Our Community. Shofar Blowing and How Exciting It Is to See Somebody Who Has No Idea How to Blow a Saxophone.

Rabbi Mendelchem's Drasha Excerpts
Shabbat Shalom My Pupils...
Everybody was in front of Moshe when he was talking. The whole people. Where is Binny?... Well. He’s not here. He’s a little child. Somebody should be watching over him... They watched over their children in the Midbar. The desert...
(Devarim 30:3) “Then H’ your Gd, will bring back your captivity and have compassion upon you. And He will return you, gather you in from all the nations that H’ your Gd has scattered you”... It's not a prayer to bring back captivity. "Bring back captivity" means to bring back the captives of our people... I know it sounds like having more captivity. But we don't want that. I don't think. And this is why I don't like translating things for you... Because you take what I say and think it's the correct translation of the Torah. That's a problem.
Now listen to me. H’ is in charge... I don’t know why there is all the scattering. Maybe we bring it ourselves and H’ allows it. Have you seen the Finkelman den? Toys are scattered everywhere.
A lot of scattering. H' has to bring us back from that... It's not up to H' to clean the Finkelman's family room.
Lesson is we mess up. We need H's compassion.

Without compassion nothing is happening. If our congregation was organizing the return of our people to Israel, it wouldn't happen. No amount of compassion could... The board can't even get seats right. Scattering people all over. If the board is in charge, we’re not having services this Rosh Hashana. Nobody is getting a seat.
H’ stepped in. We did Selichot. We asked Gd for compassion, and somehow, some of you got the seats you wanted... It was the same seats they had last year, Ruchel. That’s what they wanted... No. I don’t want to sit next to the Gabai. But it seems that I have to...

The word is “then." "Then H' your Gd will bring back your captive." That sounds better... After what?
After we return. We return after we return. We are returned to Israel after we return in Teshuva... Teshuva means to return... If repentance meant Bernie returning to himself. Something is wrong here...
We have to do Teshuva and “listen to H’s voice” (Devarim 30:2). The Pasuk starts, “And you returned to H’.” Before H’ brings us back. We have to return... You should probably return Nachum’s Siddur to his spot. That is the correct thing to do as well... After that, we can talk about redemption. After Nachum's Siddur is back in his spot and Sam and Sarah Finkelman cleans their house...

There's a preamble to returning. And that is effort. It is only when we put in that little effort... When have you put in effort, Sam? You clean your house with a Swiffer. No elbow grease. You slide the thing over the floor like you're petting the dirt. 
Redemption begins with our efforts. With our noticing we've done wrong. With looking at the shul renovations and the drapes on the Shulchan... What table has drapes?... That is not a table cloth. That is a drape. It's on the side of the table. It's a drape... Then get a table cover. Let's return to table covers...
Redemption begins with Teshuva. Returning to normal things. With not listening to the board of this shul...
Where is He bringing us back to? Not to Topeka. B"H...

The effort this congregation puts in... You're all scattered. That’s the problem. Look at the seating charts for the High Holidays.
Geulah comes with our effort. It is then that H’ helps us... We need help. Look at how everybody is sitting scattered around the shul. Everybody's worried they're going to have to share an armrest. Those things are tiny. I told you to double up on armrests between seats. The way the chairs are, you can't sit next to anybody without an armrest fight...
It’s then...

It’s only a seven-hour Davening?! That's not effort. That's painful. We will miss the redemption... Fast is two hours. I will be sure the Chazin doesn’t go over three hours... I will heckle him. I will be on top of him, hemheming and tapping my watch. I will say faster. I will blow the Shofar during his uNitanah Tokef if I have to... You saw that I did what I could with Shacharit. But the Chazin sung a song. I even gave a fast tap. It did nothing...
Point is I put in effort to make things better...

You can always donate in memory of a loved one. That's a good way to put in effort... I understand that you sweat when you give your money to charity. It's like a workout for you. How much it pains you...
The shul is a good place. I also have the rabbi’s discretionary fund. You should give to that. A very worthwhile charity and everybody knows where the money goes... Your rabbi. That is me. I have discretionized the funds to go to me, for charity reasons and holiness. Because your rabbi puts in that effort. And you get a place in Shamaim. In heaven... And thus, you will be deserving of H's compassion...

Honey for the poor is important. But what about all the other food they need for the holidays?! Kugel? Gefilte fish? Soup? What about brisket? They have to buy their own?!... So, we supply the honey to put on the brisket. And that doesn't even taste good. What about garlic powder?!...
Honey for the poor. The most useless charity I have ever heard of. Again. No effort. It’s like “Gd will provide for the poor.” There’s no commandment for Gd to provide for the poor. We’re supposed to give Tzedakah... "Gd will provide" is what you say when you've given up. Whenever someone asks me how the shul is doing, I say "Gd will provide."
First we give Tzedakah, and then maybe they’re helped. It's a communal deliverance and therefore we are our brothers' keepers.
Give more to the poor. Some effort... You can give love. You can invite them for a meal. As long as it's not the Horowitzs who have the worst food... Last time I was there for a holiday meal, I asked for more honey. I just had honey on Challah... 

The Shofar guy puts in effort. You saw his face got red...
The Shofar blowing turns into a whole conversation. “Ooh Ahh. Hebrew a Shofar for eight seconds.” In my day, I could go for fifteen seconds...
Are all the kids here? Time it. I will hold my breath. Check out how long... And that is your rabbi. It takes effort. Practice. And it is with H’s help, I’m still alive after holding my breath that long...
Why the blowing gets applause and a discussion?! You should do it for other Mitzvahs. "Oh. Did you see?! Bentzi just laid Tefillin!!! Oh Yeah. Bracha washed her hands for Hamotzi. Oh Baby!!! Awesome!!! Got all the way to the wrist. They just buried Simon. Chesed Shel Emet. High Fives!!!"
And that is how redemption happens.

If we don’t put in effort and watch our children, will they be at the Geulah?! No. Because they got lost.
If somebody can please return the Torah to the Aron right now. The fact that hasn't happened yet is messed up. Why the Torah is still out. The Gabai put in no effort to find a decent Torah carrier. The Chazin doesn't want to hurt his back. No effort... Gd will help us if you don't show up to shul. If you weren't here...

May we be deserving of H's compassion. May we put in at least that effort to have help from H' and to get out of Davening quickly. May we have a year of normal seats, where we don't have to fight over an armrest...
A year where people are quiet for Shofar blowing. When they blow the Shofar on Rosh Hashana. Just then. Put in some effort to not talk... It takes more effort for you to not talk, Bernie...

Rivka's Rundown
The armrests in the shul are truly tiny. Every fight in our shul, all hatred, comes from sitting next to somebody during Davening. 
The rabbi brought up pews. The shul even picked up a couple of pews for Rosh Hashana, to check them out. Each person insisted that the pew was their seat. Just a big one. The thing holds five people. It's a huge chair with no arm separations. One guy sat at the end of his pew, and still fought with the guy in the pew next to him over the armrest. Morty started a new cause, "One pew per person."

The rabbi held his breath for six seconds to make the point of working hard. “If you keep in shape, H’ will keep you healthy enough to hold your breath for six seconds.” That was his message.
Between us. The rabbi wanted attention. I think the rabbi is jealous of the attention the Shofar guy gets.

The rabbi puts so much effort into his translations. I appreciate him telling us that his translations are not correct.
"We return after we return." Confusing but brilliant.

The congregants truly put in no effort to anything. Cleaning with a Swiffer. That's how they do it. They drag the thing. Mark opened up the ark halfway for vChol Maaminim. Sadie put Schach on her recycle bin and said it was her Sukkah. The new roller recycle bins are huge.

The High Holiday seating was truly messed up. You had Ethel next to Faye. Not smart. You had Bernie next to Sy. Sy passed away. That was the only positive. Sy didn't have to listen to Bernie talking the whole time.

The rabbi was strong with the Chazin. Very forceful. He clapped to get the Chazin to move faster. He knows some of them can have Kavanah. And that’s not wanted.
The rabbi pushed the Chazin, and we were able to get out of shul by supper.

The office doesn’t want to wait till the High Holidays. They don’t trust the congregants will ever give. They’re trying to get whatever they can right now. They know who they’re dealing with. As the office staff says, "Always be closing. We want their money and we don't want them coming back to shul." 
The appeal cards, those never get paid. I think the office is trying to say to not wait till Yom Kippur to donate in your loved one’s memory, because they’re worried the appeal cards will only be a verification of what the members already didn’t give last year. That's what the congregants are doing. They think the cards are there to let the office know they haven't given that amount. That's the amount they will not give.

We all know where the discretionary fund money goes. The money from the Rabbi’s discretionary fund went to the rabbi’s new car and summer home last year. Which the rabbi said are holy objects. 
“Give more to the poor” is the rabbi’s new slogan. And he also added “And the rabbi’s discretionary fund.”
Many people showed up to the packaging day. They each took a jar of honey. It should’ve been a “package your honey for yourself because you deserve as much as the needy” program. Edith said Krogers was charging too much, and "that ruins the holiday spirit." The holiday spirit is getting a decent deal.

The rabbi just wanted to show off about his Shofar blowing skills. That was the real point of his Drasha.
The kids were enthralled. He called in the kids for the end of his sermon, so they could hear the stories of the legend, their rabbi. 
The rabbi wanted the Shofar attention. That's all it was.